Episodes
276
Sept. 9, 2026
Breaking Belize’s Sex Toy Taboo with Sex Educator Luanne Daniels
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 276th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Belizean sex educator and Pleasher Spot founder Luanne Daniels. Luanne got the idea for her adult novelty business after finding herself single and wanting a vibrator—only to discover that she couldn’t find the kind of quality se...
275
Sept. 2, 2026
How Caleb Orozco Won the Fight to Decriminalize Gay Sex in Belize & Changed LGBTQ+ Rights Across the Caribbean
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 275th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Belizean LGBTQ+ activist Caleb Orozco, executive director of the United Belize Advocacy Movement and the man behind the landmark court case that decriminalized consensual same-sex intimacy in Belize. Recorded during our 2021 trip...
274
Aug. 26, 2026
Abortion Doula Hannah Matthews on Bodily Autonomy, Shame & Pleasure in a Post-Roe America
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 274th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Hannah Matthews, abortion doula and author of You or Someone You Love. In this interview, Hannah shares her personal experience with abortion and her work as an abortion doula supporting others through the process, and h...
Guest: Hannah Matthews
273
Aug. 19, 2026
"Girl Gone Wild" Author Courtney Kocak on Exhibitionism, Exploitation & Sexual Agency with Jacqueline LeKachman
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code 10PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. For the 273rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak takes the hot seat as she is interviewed by returning guest Jacqueline LeKachman about her debut memoir, Girl Gone Wild. Girl Gone Wild is an unwittingly feminist coming-of-age story about ambition, delusion, drugs, sex, shame, and misogyny—from growing up with big...
Guest: Jacqueline LeKachman
272
Aug. 12, 2026
Porn Star Jennifer White on Winning AVN, Awards Politics, Her MILF Era, Marriage & Taking Control Behind the Camera
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 272nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes adult film star Jennifer White, the reigning 2026 AVN and XBIZ Female Performer of the Year. Nearly two decades and 900+ scenes into her career, Jennifer is entering her most empowering era yet. She shares the catalyst that ...
Guest: Jennifer White
271
Aug. 5, 2026
A Veteran Sex Worker-Turned-Death Doula on Domination, Self-Defense, Sober Sex & Life Lessons from the Dying with Vanessa Carlisle
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 271st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes author, sex educator, longtime sex worker, and death doula Vanessa Carlisle. After 27 years in sex work and a new foray into death work, Vanessa has a fascinating perspective into professional human connection. In this episode...
Guest: Vanessa Carlisle
270
July 29, 2026
From Sex Cult Survivor to Holistic Porn Purveyor: Inka Winter’s Journey to Redefining Pornography with ForPlay Films
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 270th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Inka Winter, the visionary founder, director, and producer of ForPlay Films. In this interview, Inka shares her approach to creating ethical, feminist, and holistic pornography. She opens up about her experience growing up in a ...
Guest: Inka Winter
269
July 22, 2026
Gen X Dating, Demisexuality & Parenting Through Gender Exploration with Dana DuBois
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 269th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes writer and podcaster Dana DuBois. Through her Substack I Write Out Loud and podcast The Daily Whatever Show, Dana has become a thoughtful, nuanced voice on culture, relationships, parenting, politics, and feminism. In this co...
Guest: Dana DuBois
268
July 15, 2026
Billy Procida's Wildest Sex Stories: The Manwhore Host on Non-Monogamy, Oral Sex, Glory Holes & Craigslist Adventures
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 268th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes comedian, Manwhore Podcast host, and Naked Comedy Show producer Billy Procida. For more than a decade, Billy has been documenting his adventures in ethical non-monogamy and casual sex with equal parts curiosity, humor, and raw hon...
Guest: Billy Procida
267
July 8, 2026
Period Pain, Polyamory, Work Trip Hookup & Wedding Planning (Just Listen, It'll All Make Sense) with Kate Helen Downey
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 267th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes CRAMPED podcast host Kate Helen Downey. Kate shares the mission behind CRAMPED: exposing why so many menstruating people spend decades searching for answers about debilitating period pain, why conditions like endometriosis are so ofte...
Guest: Kate Helen Downey
266
July 1, 2026
Porn Industry Trends: OnlyFans, AI & What's Next with Gustavo Turner
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 266th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes journalist and longtime adult industry reporter Gustavo Turner. Gustavo unpacks the biggest trends in the business of porn today, including the uncertain future of OnlyFans, the rise of competitors like Fansly, what makes investors wary...
Guest: Gustavo Turner
265
June 24, 2026
The Louis C.K. Comeback & What Accountability Do We Actually Want After Sexual Misconduct? with Tess Barker
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 265th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes podcaster and comedian Tess Barker. With Louis C.K.'s latest Netflix special, Ridiculous (out June 30th), reigniting debates about accountability, consequences, and redemption, Courtney and Tess tackle one of the thorniest questions of th...
Guest: Tess Barker
264
June 17, 2026
Stuck in a Sex Rut? Ian Kerner Helps Us Repair Our Love Lives with "So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex"
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 264th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Ian Kerner for a long-term relationship sex rut reboot. Dr. Ian Kerner is a nationally recognized sex therapist and author of the smash hit She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. He also coined the term "cliteracy" ...
263
June 10, 2026
Trad Wives, Momfluencers & Sex After Kids with Jo Piazza
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 263rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes bestselling author, journalist, podcaster, and mother of three, Jo Piazza. Jo has spent years reporting on how modern women navigate marriage, motherhood, and ambition, especially online. Jo shares what she learned studying marriage custom...
Guest: Jo Piazza
262
June 3, 2026
Who Owns a Baby? Sophie Lewis on Ethical Surrogacy & the Future of Pregnancy
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 262nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes scholar, feminist writer, and author Sophie Lewis. Known for provocative books like Full Surrogacy Now, Abolish the Family, and Enemy Feminisms, Sophie challenges some of our most deeply held assumptions about pregnancy, parenthood, caregiving,...
Guest: Sophie Lewis
261
May 27, 2026
My Tokyo Happy Ending Massage Changed Everything I Thought I Knew About Sex and Pleasure
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 261st episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak shares the story of a mindblowing happy ending massage she got in Tokyo, Japan, that completely changed her perspective on sex and pleasure. In October 2022, Courtney wrote all about it for Cosmo and then included it as an audio essay in episo...
260
May 20, 2026
“How to Make Me Come”: Emma Koenig Explores the Female Orgasm & What Makes Women "Moan"
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 260th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Emma Koenig, the author & editor of Moan: Anonymous Essays on Female Orgasm. Emma shares how her popular Tumblr, How to Make Me Come, evolved into a powerful book that explores the diverse and often misunderstood experiences of female pleas...
Guest: Emma Koenig
259
May 13, 2026
That Swipe Life: Treena Orchard on Dating Apps Through a Midlife Anthropologist's Lens
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 259th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Treena Orchard, anthropologist and author of Sticky, Sexy, Sad: Swipe Culture and the Darker Side of Dating Apps. In this episode, anthropologist Treena Orchard shares her experiences with online dating after turning 45 and offers insights in...
Guest: Treena Orchard
258
May 6, 2026
How Invisible Labor Kills Intimacy & How to Fix It with Laura Danger
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 258th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes licensed educator, content creator, and author Laura Danger. Laura’s new book, No More Mediocre, takes a hard look at the unequal labor dynamics that quietly erode so many relationships—and what it actually takes to build something more equitable...
Guest: Laura Danger
257
April 29, 2026
Chosen Family, Polyamory & the Answer to the Loneliness Epidemic with Sophie Lucido Johnson
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 257th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes author and New Yorker cartoonist Sophie Lucido Johnson. Sophie is the author of Kin: The Future of Family, a thought-provoking book that explores how we can build meaningful, supportive relationships beyond the traditional nuclear family. In this c...
Guest: Sophie Lucido Johnson
256
April 22, 2026
ChatGPT Breakup: I Read My Boyfriend’s AI Chats & It Ended Our Relationship with Lindsey Hall
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 256th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes writer and publicist Lindsey Hall, whose viral essay “I Stumbled Across My Boyfriend’s ChatGPT and It Ended Our Relationship” ignited a massive conversation about love, privacy, and AI in the modern dating landscape. In this episode, Lindsey shares t...
Guest: Lindsey Hall
255
April 15, 2026
The Forgotten Feminist Who Taught the World to Orgasm: Shere Hite & "The Hite Report" with Rosa Campbell
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code PRIVATE10 at fleshlight.com. For the 255th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Rosa Campbell, historian and author of The Book That Taught the World to Orgasm and Then Disappeared: Shere Hite and the Hite Report. In this episode, Rosa unpacks the groundbreaking (and controversial) legacy of Shere Hite and her bestselling work, Th...
Guest: Rosa Campbell
254
April 8, 2026
Motherhood & the Messy Middle of Eating Disorder Recovery with Mallary Tenore Tarpley
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code 10PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. For the 254th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes writer, journalist, and professor Mallary Tenore Tarpley. Mallary is the author of Slip: Life in the Middle of Eating Disorder Recovery, and her work reframes recovery not as a clean, finished destination, but as a messy, ongoing “middle place” where pro...
Guest: Mallary Tenore Tarpley
253
April 1, 2026
Sex Work, Feminism & the Making of "Girl Gone Wild" with "Spent" Author Antonia Crane
Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with promo code 10PRIVATE at fleshlight.com. For the 253rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, the tables are turned—host Courtney Kocak is interviewed by returning guest and Spent author Antonia Crane about her debut memoir Girl Gone Wild on its pub date! Girl Gone Wild is an unwittingly feminist coming-of-age about ambition, delusion, sex, shame, and misogyny—from growing up in...
Guest: Antonia Crane