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May 6, 2022

Original Boner Gel Presents... Dick Myths

For the 84th episode of Private Parts Unknown, hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra welcome Original Boner Gel founder Manuel Deran to bust some Dick Myths! Sofiya is the host, and Courtney and Manuel go head to head to see who’s more of a penis expert in this fun and…

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May 6, 2022

Dick Riding 101 & Intro to Squirting with Samia Burton

For the 83rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra welcome sex educator extraordinaire Samia Burton to take us to school with Dicking Riding 101 and Intro to Squirting. Samia gives tips for getting out of a sex rut, how to talk to your partner about…

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April 20, 2022

Learning Not to Settle for Crumbs with Emmy Olea

For the 82nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra welcome actor, writer, and advocate Emmy Olea to discuss her new podcast, Crumbs. Emmy shares how her childhood — having teenage parents who struggled with addiction and being raised by an awesome grandma who was her…

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April 8, 2022

The Sex Lives of African Women with Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah

For the 81st episode of Private Parts Unknown, hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra welcome Ghanaian feminist writer and blogger Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah to discuss her new book: The Sex Lives of African Women. She also co-founded the award-winning blog Adventures from the Bedrooms of African Women. Nana interviewed over…

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March 23, 2022

Meet Anjani Siddhartha The Artist Behind Doc Johnson's Sex Toys

For the 79th episode of Private Parts Unknown, sex and art collide as hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra highlight a tremendous unsung hero: the dick artist. Specifically, Anjani Siddhartha, a designer for Doc Johnson and the artist behind many of their popular sex toys. We discuss her journey to…

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March 10, 2022

Vibrators: A Brief History of a Gal's Best Friend

For the 76th episode of Private Parts Unknown, hosts Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra bring you a Galentine’s Day special about the history of a gal’s best friend: the vibrator. This episode is a horny romp through the ages, from Cleopatra to Sex and the City — and beyond. Primary…

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April 14, 2021

Intro to Shibari aka Japanese Rope Bondage

Our guest for this interview is Marika Leila Roux, a Berlin-based Shibari practitioner & the co-founder of Shibari Study, the leader in online rope education. We get into the origins of Shibari, the common misconception that it's an ancient Japanese art, how it relates to Western BSDM practices, self-tying or…

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April 7, 2021

How I Got Started in Findom with OnlyFans Creator Rara Imler

This edition of our "Comedians of OnlyFans" series features comedian, stripper & OnlyFans creator Rara Imler, who was born & raised in Guam & now lives in Atlanta. She specializes in financial domination, erotic hypnosis, foot worship & ass worship. This is an excerpt from the Private Parts Unknown podcast.…

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June 1, 2020

How to Thrive After the Death of a Loved One | Sex Talk With My Mom

Unfortunately, Sofiya's beloved grandpa just passed away, so we're posting this interview about grief with our favorite mother-son duo, Karen Lee & Cameron Poter, co-hosts of the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast. We're all in mourning now due to the traumatic events of the past few months — &…

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Oct. 3, 2019

What is Love in Helsinki, Finland?

What is it like to live & love in Finland? That's the question Private Parts Unknown co-hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra set out to answer during their recent trip to Helsinki. Turns out yes, Helsinkians have to endure frigid winters, but Finnish romance is alive & well… it just…

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Jan. 15, 2019

Relationship Red Flags You Shouldn't Ignore | Brittani Louise Taylor

Reality Bytes co-hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra are thrilled to welcome Brittani Louise Taylor, YouTube star & author of the new book "A Sucky Love Story: Overcoming Unhappily Ever After." In the full podcast interview, Brittani delves into the real-life romance that inspired the book – meeting on Tinder,…

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Dec. 18, 2018

Introducing the Pom Vibrator by Dame Products

Reality Bytes co-hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra welcome Alexandra Fine – the co-founder & CEO of Dame Products, a Brooklyn-based sex toy company – to introduce us to their newest product: the Pom, a vibrator that fits in the palm of your hand. ;) Use code REALITY to save…

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Dec. 19, 2017

The Clapback | A Trailer for the STD Whodunit of the Year

Meet Meg. Meg is trying to solve the mystery of who gave her gonorrhea. Good luck, Meg. "The Clapback" is a trailer for the STD whodunit of the year. Coming to a neighborhood near you. *a teaser for the pilot of the Blank Seeking Blank comedic anthology web series. Created…

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Oct. 24, 2017

Why Love Sucks | The True Story of Modern Romance

This is a teaser for Blank Seeking Blank, a comedic anthology series about love in the 10s, which was inspired by the Reality Bytes podcast/YouTube show about sex, love, relationships, and dating in the digital age. Speaking of... CATCH UP ON NEW EPS OF THE PODCAST HERE: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/reality-bytes/id1154304419?mt=2 And while…

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April 11, 2017

Anna Akana on Breaking Up | Full Ep

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). The twenty-seventh full episode features hilarious standup comic & fantastic friend Heidi Heaslet filling in…

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April 8, 2017

Anna Akana Plays Would You Rather | Full Ep out on Tues 4/11!

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). Twenty-seventh full episode COMING 4/11 with hilarious standup comic & fantastic friend Heidi Heaslet filling…

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March 14, 2017

Bridget Phetasy on Sex & the Other City (LA, duh) | Full Ep

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). The twenty-third full episode features squad member & hilarious standup Dave Fucking Rankin filling in…

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March 10, 2017

Bridget Phetasy on Dealing with Your Partner's Digital Past | Full Ep out on Tues 3/14!

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). Twenty-third full episode COMING 3/14 with squad member & hilarious standup Dave Fucking Rankin filling…

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Jan. 10, 2017

Syd Wilder on Dating with a Sexy Online Persona | Full Ep

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). The sixteen full episode features friend of the show & hilarious standup comic Steve Hernandez…

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Jan. 6, 2017

Syd Wilder on How to Handle the Pressure to Hookup | Full Ep out on Tues 1/10!

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). Sixteen full episode COMING 1/10 with friend of the show & hilarious standup comic Steve…

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Dec. 27, 2016

Allison Raskin on Business & Romantic Partnerships | Full Ep

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). The fourteen full episode features Gaby Dunn stopping by again to fill-in for Steph &…

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Dec. 23, 2016

Allison Raskin on Hanging Out with Your Best Friend's Ex | Full Ep out on Tues 12/27!

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). Fourteen full episode COMING 12/27 with Gaby Dunn stopping by again to fill-in for Steph…

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Dec. 13, 2016

Antonia Crane on Sex Work & Her Memoir Spent | Full Ep

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). The twelfth full episode features guest co-host Shadi Petosky helping Courtney interview badass feminist author…

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Dec. 9, 2016

Antonia Crane on Getting Back Out There | Full Ep out on Tues 12/13!

REALITY BYTES is a new show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by best friends Stephanie Beatriz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine's Rosa Diaz) & Courtney Kocak (writer on Amazon's Danger & Eggs). Twelfth full episode COMING 12/13 with guest co-host Shadi Petosky helping Courtney interview badass feminist…

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