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Episodes

Aug. 29, 2019

Dominatrix & Healer Aleta Cai on Radical Confidence, Subspace & Why “50 Shades of Grey” Was Annoying

For the 11th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra drop the final dispatch from their recent trip to New York. For this NYC edition, we're joined by dominatrix and healer Aleta Cai, who tells us about her...
Aug. 21, 2019

Wendi Starling is a Feminist Sugar Baby

For the 10th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra are back with another dispatch from their recent trip to New York. For this NYC edition, we're joined by hilarious comedian Wendi Starling, who gives us a...
Aug. 15, 2019

Billy Procida, Manwhore About Town in NYC

For the 9th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra return with a dispatch from their recent trip to New York. For this NYC edition, we're joined by crazy/sexy/cool/freaky/funny comedian Billy Procida, host...
July 25, 2019

Men Have Abortions Too, Part 3

For the 8th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra are back with the 3rd & final installment in our 3-part series featuring men talking about their personal experiences with abortion. For this edition,...
July 4, 2019

Men Have Abortions Too, Part 2

For the 7th episode of Private Parts Unknown, your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra are back with the 2nd installment in our 3-part series featuring men talking about their personal experiences with abortion. For this edition, we're joined...
June 20, 2019

Men Have Abortions Too, Part 1

For the 6th episode of Private Parts Unknown, comedian/engineer Matt Monroe () joins your hosts Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra. He tells the story behind his recent social media post that began “And now, an abortion story... “ followed by...
May 30, 2019

Grandmas, Sisters & the Foundation of Feminist Finland

For the 5th episode of Private Parts Unknown—the 3rd in our Helsinki series—your favorite commuter companions, Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra, are thrilled to introduce you to feminism in Finland & how it got that way. We explore how...
May 8, 2019

Hei Girl Hei: Dating & Romance in Helsinki, Finland—The Happiest Country in the World

For the 4th episode of Private Parts Unknown—the 2nd in our Helsinki series—your favorite commuter companions, Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra, are thrilled to introduce you to dating & romance in the capital city of the happiest country...
April 24, 2019

Advice from Finland’s Foremost Relationship Expert Tony Dunderfelt

For the 3rd episode of Private Parts Unknown—the 1st in our Helsinki series—your favorite commuter companions, Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra, are thrilled to welcome psychologist, author, relationship expert & on-set therapist for the...
April 17, 2019

Samantha Allen Takes Us Across "Real Queer America"

For the 2nd episode of Private Parts Unknown, your favorite commuter companions – Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra – are thrilled to welcome Samantha Allen, author of the new book Real Queer America: LGBT Stories from Red States, as well...
Feb. 22, 2019

Soldiers of Pole Strippers' Union is Making it Rain Workers' Rights

For the 1st ever episode of Private Parts Unknown, your favorite commuter companions – Courtney Kocak & Sofiya Alexandra – are honored to welcome the badass stripper-activists – Antonia Crane, Domino Rey & Naomi Amadeo – behind the...
Jan. 23, 2019

Laci Mosley on Southern Courtship, Eating Ass & Wondering if There's Anyone Out There for Her

For the 31st episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome hilarious actress, improviser & comedian Laci Mosley. First: The triad reveals that this is the very...
Jan. 14, 2019

Brittani Louise Taylor Met Her Fiancé on Tinder & Then Slowly Discovered He Was an Abusive Con Man

For the 30th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is down a Dave, but nonetheless thrilled to welcome Brittani Louise Taylor, YouTube star & author of the new book A Sucky...
Jan. 7, 2019

Rachel Evans on IG Thirst-Trapping, Pro-Wrestling & How to Perform a Magick Masturbation Sigil

For the 29th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome Rachel Sam Evans, Snarled senior content manager & host of Dark 5, as well as co-host of the Best of the Rest...
Dec. 31, 2018

New Year's Eve Special: 2018 Year in Review & 2019 Resolutions

For the 28th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – does their 1st foray into guestlessness (don't worry, we'll be back with a guest next ep!) to review the personal &...
Dec. 17, 2018

Alex Fine of Dame Products on Marriage, Nonmonogamy & Running a Sex Toy Company During the #MeToo Movement

For the 27th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is down a Dave, but nonetheless thrilled to welcome Alexandra Fine, the co-founder & CEO of Dame Products, a Brooklyn-based sex...
Dec. 12, 2018

Kudzi & Tiffany of Love in Limboland on LA Dating Horror Stories & How to Keep the Momentum Going Without Wasting a Ton of Time Texting

For the 26th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome the hosts of the Love in Limboland podcast Kudzi & Tiffany. First: The triad discusses our tendencies to stay...
Dec. 10, 2018

Ryan Singer on Overcoming His Fear of Intimacy, Male/Female Friendship & His New Album "Free Love"

For the 25th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome standup comedian & host of the Me & Paranormal You podcast Ryan Singer to talk about his new comedy album...
Dec. 3, 2018

Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik of Almost 30 on Reframing Infidelity & Sexual Harassment & the Keys to a Successful Partnership

For the 24th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome the hosts of the Almost 30 podcast Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik. First: The triad got a very poignant,...
Nov. 28, 2018

Jenna Birch on "The Love Gap" & the Launch of Her New Dating App Plum

For the 23rd episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome Jenna Birch, author of The Love Gap: A Radical Plan to Win in Life and Love & co-founder/CEO of the new dating...
Nov. 26, 2018

Jack O'Brien & Miles Gray on Fatherhood, Being True to Yourself in a Relationship. Tech-Induced Loneliness & Embarrassing Rap Pasts

For the 22th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome the hosts of the HowStuffWorks podcast The Daily Zeitgeist Jack O'Brien (who also co-founded Cracked.com)...
Nov. 14, 2018

Reza Aslan & Jessica Jackley on Raising Boys with Consent Culture & How to Talk to Kids About Sex & Religion

For the 21st episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome power couple Reza Aslan (religion scholar & author of God, Zealot & more) & Jessica Jackley (co-founder...
Nov. 12, 2018

Delanie Fischer on Turning a Hookup into a Long-Term Relationship & Her Female Fuckboy Phase

For the 20th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome Delanie Fischer, co-host of The Self-Helpless Podcast & founder/CEO of Dicks by Delanie. First: Courtney &...
Nov. 7, 2018

Tito Bonito on Male Burlesque, Playing with Gender on Stage & the Joys of Having a Prostate

For the 19th episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome Tito Bonito, aka "the Cuban Missile Crisis of burlesque," a male burlesque performer & hilarious emcee. First:...